If one look can take your breath away, imagine the power that your peepers can harness. The language of looks is something any lover of love should be well-versed in. Discover the different eye patterns and movements that hint at a deeper attraction so you're never left in the lurch.
The Body Language of Love: Common Eye Signals to Look For
As the saying goes, "The eyes are the window to the soul." There is something very comforting about looking into the eyes of someone who loves you because the eyes are warm and welcoming. When determining whether someone likes you by looking at his/her eyes, you need to know what to look for. Don't worry if after reading these clues you don't remember your potential crush exhibiting them, you may need to just pay closer attention since eye body language can be easy to miss. Some examples of how to read eyes for love are:
- Rapid blinking is one movement in the body language of eyes and it might hint at deeper attraction.
- If someone has a crush on you and has insecurities, you may notice a lack of eye contact from the person.
- Winking may mean someone is trying to let you know they're interested in you.
- Intense eye contact, especially with a smile, may mean the person has a crush on you.
- Pupil size increases means the person likes what they see.
- Glistening eyes can signify strong attraction and perhaps even love.
What Happens to Someone's Eyes When They're in Love?
Attraction is easily spotted in a person's eyes, but love can be just as unmistakable. The eyes convey a message of appreciation, as though the person is "drinking in" your features with their eyes, memorizing your face as if they're frightened they may forget if they look away too long. Eyes might also appear slightly amused as if you're both in on a joke that the rest of the world doesn't understand.
When trying to figure out how to tell if someone loves you by looking at their eyes, remember that much of a person's eye language is conducive with their personality, so while a lighthearted person may display an amused look when looking at the object of their affection, an intense person may reserve an intense stare for the person they love.
Related: 10 Body Langauge Clues They're Falling in Love With You
Eye Contact & What It Means
The duration and intensity of a stare can signify affection or love but don't mistake the lack of a stare as proof that there are no feelings there. In fact, some cultures frown upon staring, and not staring is a sign of respect instead of a signal of disinterest. Also, keep in mind that some people are simply uncomfortable with direct eye contact and may avoid the gaze of people - even loved ones.
Eye-Based Behaviors & Their Meanings
The reason why many poker players wear sunglasses while playing cards is that the eyes can give away thoughts and feelings. A simple blinking of the eyes or glistening due to moisture from the tear ducts can indicate excitement. Here is what else you can learn about people by noticing their eyes:
- When people narrow their eyes, it usually means they are unhappy, disgusted, or generally turned off by someone or something.
- When people are upset at someone, they will usually glare at the person. Glaring is an intimidation approach typically used by many animals as well.
- When people are unable to stay focused and keep eye contact with the person they are speaking to, it usually means they are not paying attention.
- Excessive blinking's body language may mean someone has something to hide. This can be a good or bad thing. If someone is lying, he/she is more likely to blink but a person will also blink if he/she is trying to hide that he/she has a crush on you!
- Looking down can be a sign of submission and respect in some cultures. It also exhibits modesty.
- Being able to hold eye contact with someone means you have confidence.
Make a Love Connection With One Glance
While the eyes are a good barometer of attraction, you should be careful when solely using body language as an indication of love. Keep your wires from getting crossed by learning how to tell if someone is attracted to you and taking the big leap of asking them how they feel. But you'll find that in many cases, all it takes to make a love connection is a single look.
