Scorpio women are deeply sensual and loyal partners. But they also tend to be a little mysterious and hard to read, which can make it a challenge if you have a special Scorpio in your sights. So if you're ready to woo a Scorpio woman, these tips can help.
Be Yourself
First and foremost, before you try any other thing, it's important to understand this about Scorpio women: They are highly empathic beings and can spot inauthenticity from a mile away. And they hate, hate, hate inauthenticity. They run in the other direction if they think someone isn't being honest and authentic. In order to have a Scorpio woman trust you, you need to be trustworthy by being yourself. So if any of these other tips and tricks are not who you are, don't try them. Instead, be your authentic self.
Emphasize a Shared Sense of Adventure
Scorpios can be adrenaline junkies because they live for intensity. They often live on the extremes of emotion — you'll always know how a Scorpio is feeling — and adventure caters to this intense aspect of their nature. So one way to keep a Scorpio woman interested is through a shared sense of adventure. Do stuff that gets your blood moving and makes you feel alive, and she'll soon see you're exactly her kind of person.
Introduce Her to New Experiences
Scorpio appreciates learning new things. She finds new experiences very satisfying. Plan a unique date, such as a submarine ride followed by an afternoon zip line adventure. Find out if she has a bucket list and start planning your dates around it.
Engage Her With Mental Stimulus
Scorpios tend to be one of the smartest zodiac signs, and mental stimulation is important to them. They like to dig deep because they have an insatiable thirst to uncover all the mysteries of the universe. So many Scorpio women have a very complex and interesting inner world. They're curious about just about anything. You can bond over this shared sense of curiosity — discussing everything from the mysteries of the universe to the history of the world.
Don't Give Away All Your Secrets
Scorpios are often ciphers, and they're drawn to people who seem to be equally mysterious. If you intrigue her, she's going to want to dig to find out more. So it helps if you keep some of your secrets and reveal them over time instead of leaving everything on the table during your first meeting.
Provide a Safe Space for Her to Express Her Emotions
A Scorpio woman has an extremely emotional nature. She can turn from hot to cold in a flash. This moodiness is just part of who she is, and you need to allow her the space to experience and express these emotional extremes without making her feel judged or like she's wrong for the way she feels. It can be a challenge to manage these emotional extremes, but Scorpio women are usually worth the effort.
Learn Her Love Language
For Scorpios, physical touch tends to be one of their most important love languages. They are highly sensual beings who revel in the pleasures of the flesh. Ask her about her love languages and then try to communicate with her in the ways that matter to her most.
Be Faithful and True
If your relationship with a Scorpio woman seems to be going somewhere, it's important that you're honest, faithful, and true at all times. Scorpios can be highly suspicious and extremely jealous. So always leading with honesty and being above reproach will keep from triggering these inherent challenges to a relationship. If you give her a reason not to trust you, the relationship may not end right in that moment, but it's as good as over because it's nearly impossible to regain a Scorpio's trust after you've lost it.
Getting to Know a Scorpio Woman
Scorpio women are extreme and intense, and they tend to choose relationships based on their own intuition. So the best way to get a Scorpio woman to want to date and get to know you better is to be honest and authentic and communicate in ways that intrigue and reassure her.
